Because you’re choosing a marriage partner, not just a date to a party, this person will be with you, in your life for a comparatively longer period time. So what kind of person he or she is will affect your life, your mood, your social circle too. We need someone that’s good, who has a warm heart, a loving and caring person. And one thing, you don’t need to worry about your own safety, because a good person is usually a person of fairness , responsibility and integrity. So being married to such a person, you should be happy too.

　　Good looking

　　Because in my traditional point of view, marriage is for life, call me old-fashioned, but that’s truly how I feel. So you’re going to spend 40-60 years maybe with this one person closest to you. So when you’re having dinner, he’s sitting across the table from you; when you go out to party, he’s standing right beside you; everyday when you wake up, you wake up next to him. For all the above things, you need someone that’s comfortable to look at. That way you’ll feel life is “handsome” too. Plus, it’s quite good for my ego . Because, look who I got, he’s gorgeous, that means I’m beautiful. Vanity? Yes.But you can’t blame a girl for wanting nice-looking things.

　　A person who treats me well

　　I’m a girl, and I want to find someone who’s willing to treat me like a queen. I don’t want a servant for life. I want someone who understands me, loves me and cares for me. I’m choosing a husband, a life partner. I’m not finding an ATM machine. I definitely need someone who is emotionally available to me. That way, I shall feel really secure and loved and that’s what marriage should bring to me. Plus, if a man doesn’t treat you well now, he’s not likely to treat you well later in life. Every time I see the movie “golden pond”, I’m always moved by how many years later after the old couple got married they still loved each other deeply. That’s the kind of relationship I want to be in, and a man that treats me well deserves my treating him well.

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